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Choosing your First Wedding Dance song

Monday, March 22nd, 2010

There are different aspects you should consider when deciding on your first wedding dance song. Of course you want it to be a song that you and your partner like but do bear in mind that you will need to be able to dance to it as well and then the tempo (not too slow, not too fast – have a look on Wedding dance -page for examples) and clear beat will carry more importance than you might have thought before.

You might be one of those couples who think that it’s their day and they get to enjoy it to the full. You might also consider the guests and whether the song would be something that everyone knows and can join in during the chorus, tap their feet and feel a warm glow while watching you dance.

One more thing to ponder about is the length of the song – will you dance the whole song through or have your relatives or all your guests join you after a while? 1 min 30 secs or so is a good time on the floor by yourselves.  Then you can invite the relatives / guests (as per your choice) to join you to finish off the song. Alternatively you can either fade out the song after the big finish (round that 1,5 min point) or if you have a band, have them wrap up the song from there – your guests will join in for the second song instead.

Happy listening while choosing your tune!

What to wear for a first wedding dance lesson

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010

The most important factor when considering the clothing for your wedding dance lesson, is that you need to be comfortable. For some this means smart casual (dress, heels, shirt, tie etc) and for others jeans & T-shirt. As a teacher I don’t mind. It is a dance lesson so as long as you can move around, that’s fine.

Shoes are a bit different as the soles should be a little bit slippery so that you can swivel on the ball of the foot – very grippy / sticky trainers won’t work. The height of the heel for the ladies should be about the same as you will have on the wedding day; if you do this on one lesson then you’ll know what it feels like to dance in heels and if you should practice a bit more or if you are fine and can do the rest in flat shoes. Some dance studios have very nice wooden floors and they won’t allow you to wear spiky stiletto heels which might dig holes on the floor.

Enjoy your lessons!

Dance Listings

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

There are various dance listings out there in the web, some of them get updated, others not.

Is there a need for one more???

A listing that would be in a calendar format (instead of rows and rows of text), and you could choose which dance styles you want to see and which locations?

Comments appreciated :)